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(This is something [livejournal.com profile] purplerabbits and myself have thought for a long time, and I just got to writing up in an LJ comment. Copying it here with minor edits 'cos I'm interested to know what people think.)

I think I'm generally acknowledged to be a total screaming materialist and skeptic about magick, superstition, gods and so forth, and as such I'm not sure I see a reason why you shouldn't do a ritual to change the way you feel about something, if you think it might work.

It's not necessarily a step in the question of believing in all that - it's a willing suspension of disbelief, in order to do things to your head from a sideways angle that aren't always easy to do head-on. Our heads are full of irrational things, some of them undesirable, and you can't always make them stop doing their nasty work by saying "stop that, it's irrational!". You can use ritual and suspension of disbelief to turn them into something you can visualise, something tangible, and you can address them on their own territory.

The liberating thing about this, of course, is that you needn't invoke Innana, or Ganesh, if you don't want to - if it will work better, you can invoke John Lennon or Santa Claus.

When Alison and I decided to stop dithering and commit to running BiCon 2002, we did a ritual to mark the occasion - she found two blue smarties and two red ones, and we solemnly ate the red pills together...

Re: And your point is...

Date: 2002-09-13 01:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
OK, you acknowledge that what you are doing is suspension of disbelief and stop trying to impose it as fact in public discourse.

I think that would be the sticking point. Some people genuinely believe.

It sould be a bit like saying to a religious (monotheistic) person: "OK, you admit God doesn't exist, and we'll stop ridiculing and demolishing your myths". It's not really going to work because you're still insisting that they admit you're right and they're just being silly.

:o)

Re: And your point is...

Date: 2002-09-13 01:52 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] djm4
Yes, the compromise I prefer is more along the lines of:

"OK, we accept that you and I believe different things. I accept that you believe in $spiritual_entity and you accept that I don't. Neither of us has any likelihood of convincing the other that the other is wrong, since we're both intelligent and well-read enough to be familiar with the relevant arguments. So long as it doesn't hurt or threaten me that you believe different things from me, that's not a problem. Just don't try to get me to run my life according to yuor beliefs, and I won't try to get you to run your life according to mine."

This won't solve all problems. Some people's beliefs (rational and spiritual) cause them to believe that they need to convert others to their belief, and do Bad Things to people who don't convert. And there is certainly the problem of what to tell the kids - in an ideal world you let them decide what's right for them, but they're inevitably goign to be more strongly influenced by the beliefs of those people closest to them.

Re: And your point is...

Date: 2002-09-13 02:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jhg.livejournal.com
And there is certainly the problem of what to tell the kids - in an ideal world you let them decide what's right for them, but they're inevitably goign to be more strongly influenced by the beliefs of those people closest to them.

Both my parents took the ideal world view you describe - let your children decide what's right for them.

All my schools, on the other hand, were strongly C of E (if that's not a contradiction in terms).

As it happens, my dad is atheist, and my mum is agnostic.

AFAIK, all my brothers and sisters are atheist or agnostic.

After a brief flirtation with christianity, I am now a confirmed atheist.

Does that show I've been influenced by close people?


J

Re: And your point is...

Date: 2002-09-13 03:20 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] djm4
Does that show I've been influenced by close people?

I'd say so; I think your parents attitude of 'let you decide' had a strong influence. However, I'm suddenly uncomfortably aware that when I say 'influenced', I don't meant that they necessarily follow their beliefs - they may well rebel strongly against them - so I've just been rather dogmatic about something I'd find it really, really hard to prove. Oh dear.

I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 04:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
I think that would be the sticking point.

I agree that this is the sticking point, and this is why I'm sticking to it. I think getting over it would represent some progress.

Some people genuinely believe.

I'm not convinced. Or, at least, I would be prepared to believe that a tiny minority of those who are religious are so deluded that they genuinely believe. I think the majority just want the illusion to work. Therefore, they don't like admitting that it's a spiritual illusion, and they don't like us pointing it out. If they have their way, as they had for centuries, they would insist that everyone subscribes to the illusion and describes the world in terms of it, as if it were fact.

The message that I wish to get through to religious people is this: Look, it's an illusion. Both you and I know this. We understand the value of the illusion and respect it. In the past, you (believers) have been forcing the illusion upon us but now we (rationalists) have the upper hand. Why don't you give up the untenable position of trying to confront fact with the illusion, and we'll go some way to maintain pretenses in order not to spoil the illusion for you. But we'll only do that on the basis of a clear understanding that it's an illusion.

Now, if the religious people really had a strong ability to use faith, they would be quite comfortable with this compromise, as are Alison and Paul. But because of their feeble powers of maintaining belief, they feel that the illusion will shatter if they admit it or if anyone challenges it, and so they have been censoring the rest of us for centuries into some grotesque theater where we were not allowed to question their beliefs. All so that they could more easly indulge in their escapism.

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 05:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
But by admitting that something is just an illusion you by definition shatter that illusion. An illusion only works if it is believed to be real.

You might as well tell depressed people to "snap out of it".

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 05:29 am (UTC)
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But by admitting that something is just an illusion you by definition shatter that illusion. An illusion only works if it is believed to be real.

But belief operates on many levels. I don't have to believe Willow and Tara actually exist to get emotionally involved in their storylines on Buffy. I duck when I'm playing a computer game and boulders fly towards the screen, although my rational brain doesn't believe the pixels are going to coalesce into solid rock, fly out of the screen and hit me. And, on the days when I'm a determinist and believe that free will is an illusion, that doesn't stop me from behaving as though I had free will.

My problem with [livejournal.com profile] pavlos's point is that he/she seems to me to be describing a small minority of 'believers', not the majority claimed. I also know plenty of believers who claim to believe (and whose word I have no reason to doubt), many 'believers' who take the view that it probably is an illusion but works for them, and many who doubt, and are quite happy to discuss their doubts.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 07:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
Well, firstly, it wasn't me who introduced the word "illusion". All I am saying is that if people believe something to be true, then admitting it is an illusion is the same as admitting it is not true. Many religious people do not intellectualise their beliefs to the extent that many of your acquaintences do, after all. And indeed, the ones that do are probably not the ones who annoy Pavlos (and me, incidentally).

Secondly, it seems as if Pavlos requires that most people who claim to believe know deep down that they're wrong. His whole argument appears to turn on the idea that all but a tiny number of people (so small they're not worth bothering about, he seems to say), are aware that they're wrong, and what he would like to see is them coming out and admitting it. But what if *he's* wrong? Where's his proof? He seems to be going on gut instinct.

The message that I wish to get through to religious people is this: Look, it's an illusion. Both you and I know this.

I might as well say: "Look, God exists and you're just denying what you know in your own heart to be true. Give yourself a break and let Jesus into your life. You know it makes sense. You know it's true deep down, so why are you being so stubborn? I wish everyone in the world knew the Lord personally. You'd all be so happy and it would be a much nicer place."

Let me state for the record, incidentally, that I am a confirmed atheist. But I accept that this also is a faith position. When I say that I might as well say... "XYZ" above, my point is not that what is said in that paragraph is justified, or indeed that I don't agree that religious people are deluded (I do), but rather that Pavlos is using opinion rather than fact in what he appears to posit as a debating position, and so I don't believe it will be a very effective debating approach. That's all. I suspect that Pavlos and I agree on far more than not.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 09:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com

All I am saying is that if people believe something to be true, then admitting it is an illusion is the same as admitting it is not true.

I'm not sure I'd go along with that. There's too much hyperreal stuff around these days. Consider a magical sword in EverQuest--is it an electronic illusion, or is it real? If I believe in its existence and magical power, is that belief true or not?

It's not true, because the sword doesn't really exist in the physical universe, and even if it did it wouldn't be magical. Yet on the other hand, it's not an illusion, because it has a consistent existence in the EverQuest realm. Furthermore, you might have purchased it with real money on eBay, which breaks down the boundary even further.

One of the things I learnt from Philip K Dick, not to mention Baudrillard, is that the boundary between real and illusion, and between true and false, is a lot less clear and consistent than many people believe it to be.

Of course, a lot of people who believe in gods would probably reject postmodernism. They want to believe in an absolute objective reality and concrete binary notions of truth and falsity as much as they want to believe in gods.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 09:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
I think perhaps the use of the word "illusion" is clouding the issue. What I mean to say is that it appears to me that Pavlos was saying that he would want to get all people professing to believe in X to admit that they don't really believe it. I was suggesting that a large number of them probably do.

The EverQuest sword poser is, I think, no poser at all: quite simply, it is a matter of context. It is not real because it is part of a fictional world, but it is as real as anything alse in that world and it can be effective within it, and in whatever ways that fictional world interacts with this. So you pay real money to improve your chances in the game. That's a product.

There are plenty of people who believe in the existence of God as a fact, many of whom have never heard of "postmodernism". And frankly, I too would argue that when it comes down to whether God exists or not (in some form, for some definition), then to me this is a purely objective question. Either He/it does or He/it doesn't. Just because someone wants him/it to exist doesn't mean he/it does, and just because I don't doesn't mean he/it doesn't (arguments over exactly what form he/it might take if it existed are not enough to negate this stance, because any form which would be recognised is enough for the definition, and ifhe/it doesn't exist then it's irrelevant). You and I have nothing to do with it, because the universe is not centred around human beings - only our perception of it is. And our perception of it is what you are talking about. Because the word "illusion" refers to perception, here lies the confusion, I think. I may not have been clear enough, but I am attempting to talk about something from more of an objective approach.

One of the things I learnt from Philip K Dick, not to mention Baudrillard, is that the boundary between real and illusion, and between true and false, is a lot less clear and consistent than many people believe it to be.

This may be true, but my point is that it is not true to the "believers" I at least am talking about. My point in this debate has only ever been that Pavlos's approach could never possibly work, because it relies upon geting the "other side" to admit that "we" are right and they wrong, from the start. In fact, that is also their position! But Pavlos says he wants a compromise. This is contradictory. A true compromise means negotiation until both sides have part - but not all - of what they want. Pavlos's approach gives nothing but takes everything as right. All I mean to do is question this.

Although, as I say, I expect Pavlos and I are pretty much agreed about the larger issue...;o)

Phew. Too many long words; I'm off for the weekend.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 03:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com

The EverQuest sword poser is, I think, no poser at all: quite simply, it is a matter of context. It is not real because it is part of a fictional world, but it is as real as anything alse in that world and it can be effective within it, and in whatever ways that fictional world interacts with this. So you pay real money to improve your chances in the game. That's a product.

That doesn't seem to me to have answered the question of whether it's real or not. It seems more like you've just agreed with me.

And frankly, I too would argue that when it comes down to whether God exists or not (in some form, for some definition), then to me this is a purely objective question.

I don't see why the existence of god should be a priori objective. Plenty of things exist for me but not for you. A bunch of ideas, for example.

You and I have nothing to do with it, because the universe is not centred around human beings - only our perception of it is.

But our perception is all we know. It's convenient to assume that those perceptions correspond to an objective external reality, but there's no guarantee that any god you may experience will do so. We experience things that don't correspond to consensus reality all the time.

This may be true, but my point is that it is not true to the "believers" I at least am talking about.

Again, I think you're agreeing with me.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feanelwa.livejournal.com
I don't think the sword is a blurry example of real/not real - it's a superposition of the two states.
In EverQuest, it's a real sword.
Not in EverQuest, it's not a real sword.
If someone turned round saying "I'm holding a magic EverQuest sword" and hit me with it, they would consider both to be true. To their EverQuest self, i'd be dead. To their real-world self, i'd still be alive. But i wouldn't be half-alive and half-dead. I'd be both distinct states at the same time.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 05:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
What are you going on about? In the EverQuest server there are some electrical charges and/or magnetic patterns that represent the polygons and stats of the EverQuest sword. Through a complicated arrangement of electronics, pictures appear on your screen that look similar to a metal sword. Many people have been exposed to those images and so their brains contain synaptic patterns that are related to the memory of the on-screen images of the sword, and to plans about the uses in which the sword could be put into in the game. Where's the blur between the real and "not real" in all this?

Honestly, if I were a contemporary of Plato I'd sneak up to him in a dark cave and kick him over the head!

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-16 01:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
I don't see why the existence of god should be a priori objective. Plenty of things exist for me but not for you. A bunch of ideas, for example.

Do you know what, this is fascinating.

I'll attempt to explain why I think as I do with this, although getting the words exact will be tricky, so bear with me.

I do not disagree that there are things which exist for one person and not another - that is certainly correct and these beliefs are a matter of perception. If a particular person did not exist then neither would their particular belief (although something very similar may exist in someone else).

One point about God as the word is usually understood in, for example, the Christian religion, is that He is supposed to be omnipotent. I argue that this definition of God implies that God is supposed to exist separately from the minds of those who believe in him. Indeed, Christians certainly act as if this is true. Integral to the idea of "bearing witness" is the concept that it is your duty to spread the Word, so that more people can be "saved". If you ask many Christians if they believe that God exists for everyone and not just for those who believe in Him, then I bet you'd first of all get a puzzled look, and then a definite "yes". It is part of this religion that God exists separate from human beings. I don't believe it, but I am certain that it is a fundamental part of that belief system. Otherwise what's the point? Who the hell would become a Christian just because they want a ritual system? Who would subscribe to such a prohibitive way of life just because they hope it will be comforting? And don't we have plenty of anecdotal evidence to suggest that people who are converted to Christianity tend to undergo some kind of Damascene experience which leaves them utterly certain that there "is" a God? I don't think any of them mean "there is a God for me, although admittedly, He may not exist for you..." Many of them want to convert everybody else, because they're sure God exists objectively. There are religious people who accept the "God exists for me, but maybe not for you" line, but they are the philosophical few.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-16 12:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
I agree. I think that the major religions with which we are vaguely familiar over here (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) are unfortunately constructed along very absolute lines. God is supposed to exist for everyone, and is supposed to be interventionist. It would be difficult for someone to become a Christian just to get a spiritual framework for themselves. It might be possible to join some new religion with modern constraints or, like Alison, to eclectically join a dead religion that is definitely understood to be personal.

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
I think what I propose is a compromise because both sides get an agreeable psychological environment in which to enjoy their beliefs, and that is achieved without installing any huge barriers around large areas of discourse. Before the compromise, things look like this:
  • Believer: I am certain that God exists. This conviction makes me feel good. These horrible atheists are constantly arguing that it doesn't and insult me with "evidence". This is extremely offensive. Why do they think they know, and why do they insist on trying to demolish my conviction?
  • Atheist: Everything around us suggests that god is a myth. These stupid believers are not only deluded, they are dangerous! They cannot distingush the myth from fact and sometimes attempt to force others to subscribe to the myth, or make ruinous policies based on the myth e.g. anti-contraception.
After the suggested compromise, it looks like this:
  • Believer: I will go to church, worship the beutiful teachings of Christ, and feel spiritually strong and secure. Actually I know at a certain rational level that this is a psychological construct, but so what? It works loudly and clearly. I know that it would be foolish to try and make public policy or discuss the material world in this context. Atheists agree. They respect my spirituality and we get along very well.
  • Atheist: I feel liberated to live in a world that is not oppressed by myths. I too feel the need to engage in rituals sometimes, but much less frequently than the believers. I respect that their need for spirituality is stronger, and understand it would be grossly impolite to try and undermine their myths. I support the myths as valuable social constructs. I feel safe doing this because I know that all of us in fact agree to organize material things on rational grounds.

So it is definitely a compromise, at least at the psychological level. It is capitulation to rationalism at a logical level, but since when was logic the deciding factor in religious matters? I strongly believe (another personal opinion) that religious people are religious for psychological reasons and not for logical ones. In other words they are religious because it feels good or "right" and definitely not as a result of some rational analysis of observed facts. Rationalizing, they do, but not reasoning.

Admittedly, my compromise is much less realistic than the "we agree to differ" stalemate proposed earlier by David. My compromise has the advantage that useful and respectful discussion can progress on any aspect of life, and public policy can be arranged that accommodates everyone's preferences incuding the accommodation that some people need to be more surrounded by spirituality and some less.

I agree that we generally agree. Especially, I agree that I ascribe everyone with an extremely high ability of rational reflection into their own beliefs. That is why I think (reaffirming the first personal belief) that this compromise is unrealistic, not because my model of why people believe in god is inaccurate.

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-14 03:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feanelwa.livejournal.com
That's not two sets of people then, really, because they both believe the same as you do now! The whole point is that the religious people *wouldn't* agree to it because they really do put credence in the religion, and to them it really isn't just a set of rituals.

I don't consider David's proposition ot be a stalemate at all. I know lots of people who are religious, but we get on just fine. We have discussions about stuff like the nature of reality, and we don't end up shouting at each other at all. Most of them don't find their religion in conflict with logical thought, they're engineers and physicists and things and slot the two bits of life together perfectly.

Re: I doubt it

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Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 06:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ruis.livejournal.com

The message that I wish to get through to religious people is this: Look, it's an illusion. Both you and I know this.

When the rationalists can scientifically prove that a religion is purely an illusion then they can tell everyone to agree with them or label them as being deluded. Until that point they are acting in exactly the same way as the other fundamentalists who try and convert people to save them.

Now, if the religious people really had a strong ability to use faith, they would be quite comfortable with this compromise, as are Alison and Paul.

If being a rationalist is a matter of faith and not knowledge I can't see how it differs from any other religion. Which possibly explains why I have never had a strong enough faith to become an atheist.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 07:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
I am making the controversial point that religious people are in fact quite rational but intellectually dishonest. They can see that god almost certainly does not exist, but are refusing to think about or discuss that matter. I'm trying to say, look, you can own up to the illusion and it'll still work, honest! We'll even role-play to help you if you do own up. Yes, I am partly trying to save them, and also to reduce conflict between believers and atheists.

I'm not saying anything about rationalism being a matter of faith. I'm saying that if people have a well-developed capacity to use faith, as in suspension of disbelief, they can engage in spiritual activities in a controlled way, like Alison and Paul, and still get some benefit. I am ridiculing the religious people by saying: your faith is weak, it requires constant maintenance of the illusion in order to work.

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 07:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adjectivemarcus.livejournal.com
They can see that god almost certainly does not exist

This is starting to remind me of a discussion I had with [livejournal.com profile] sgloomi on the nature of humour. His contention was that no-one actually thinks Jim Davidson is funny, they're all laughing at him out of contempt and post modern irony. My position was that no, they do think he's funny - and it doesn't matter how many times he stated that JD wasn't funny, such things are not binary. The most that could be said was "I don't find XYZ funny", but he was clinging to a belief that he could lay down "XYZ isn't funny, period."

Anyway. No. Many of them can quite clearly see that God very much exists. Whether this makes them rational/irrational honest/dishonest is a different thing.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 08:14 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] djm4
I am making the controversial point that religious people are in fact quite rational but intellectually dishonest.

You are making the 'controversial' assertion that religious people are in your experience/opinion/dreams quite rational but intellectually dishonest.

You appear to be psychic to the extent that you know how millions of people you've never met think. You're even prepared to tell people who claim to think a certain way that actually they don't. I wish I had your powers of vision, but unfortunately, I don't myself believe in psychics, so as a rationalist I regretfully have to regard you as deluded.

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 09:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
All of what you say is true. I am making a controversial assertion based on personal opinion that isn't and couldn't possibly be founded. In terms of rational validity this is as good as any standpoint in religious debate, since each side basically inhabits its own solipsistic island. I could very well be deluded, i.e. it could be the case that most religious people are very honest and truly believe. Neither possiblity could be established by measurement, since the behaviour of "true believer" and "disonest escapist" are identical to the current limits of our senses.

The reason that I think there is any point talking about this is that I'm hoping to strike a chord in the minds of firstly you, the readers, whom I mostly expect to be atheist, and secondly anyone who might be religious in the way that I describe. In other words you might think "Aha, well said! I too have the same gut feeling as Pavlos. I will see if I can use this sort of theory in the future, either to convince someone or to help me interpret someone's actions". Or I may meet a slightly religious person who would be prepared to admit in private "Yeah, well, I don't believe it literally but I find it uplifting to try to believe it as much as possible".

My use of the word "dishonest" seems to be a bit abrasive. Well, there you go. The alternatives are "right", "different", or "deluded". I'm not sure that "deluded", which would be my personal interpretation of believing in god, is much more flattering. I can point to much self-serving behaviour that's contrary to the teachings of major religions to think that "dishonest" may have a place in describing their followers. Apologies to everyone who isn't.

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 10:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com

I am making the controversial point that religious people are in fact quite rational but intellectually dishonest. They can see that god almost certainly does not exist, but are refusing to think about or discuss that matter.

So how do you respond to religious people who say "Look, you can quite obviously see the evidence all around that God must exist--you just want to pretend he doesn't, so that you can go on living an immoral and hedonistic life"?

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 11:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
Their point is equally valid. I am hoping to convince borderline religious people of the "dishonest escapist" type, who might perhaps see and own up to their dishonest beliefs if directly confronted with them. Equally, the argument that you set out could convince a person who is feeling religious but denying it to own up and identify as religious.

We can, if you like, launch into a large discussion as to which of the two is most likely, or why I personally think the "dishonest escapist" theory is a more likely explanation of people's religious behaviour than the "true believer" theory. Since information is very sketchy, I don't think we can each do much more than state our intuitive opinions at this stage.

Incidentally, I don't see the corelation between religion and morality, so I don't get the second part of the argument. It would suffice to say "You know that God exists but you are denying it because you currently identify as atheist".

Pavlos

Re: I doubt it

Date: 2002-09-13 04:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feanelwa.livejournal.com
I think we should burn them all. (jk)
I really need a new user icon...

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