Don't ask why I'm back six years (it's not because I'm reading the whole archive).
I often found myself explaining to an ex of mine (who is a filthy perv) why I liked slamdancing, which is sort of the opposite side of the question; she enjoyed pain and endorphins in a sexual context, and found that the most helpful way to understand why I enjoyed them in an asexual context.
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Date: 2007-11-29 08:47 am (UTC)I often found myself explaining to an ex of mine (who is a filthy perv) why I liked slamdancing, which is sort of the opposite side of the question; she enjoyed pain and endorphins in a sexual context, and found that the most helpful way to understand why I enjoyed them in an asexual context.