Yep, I got that reaction too; gave up reading after 20 or so comments because of the overwhelming POOR ME tone of all the responses; and very much in agreement with the rest of your thoughts on that.
I think the last couple of times I've hooked up at all with men (whether that's been a snog or what turned into an ongoing relationship) it's been me who made the first move. That's not universally been the case, though; some of both, I guess?
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Re: Non-fluffy comment
Date: 2011-10-06 02:26 pm (UTC)I think the last couple of times I've hooked up at all with men (whether that's been a snog or what turned into an ongoing relationship) it's been me who made the first move. That's not universally been the case, though; some of both, I guess?