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You are, I think, entitled to the right to hold and express any opinion without being shut down by the State for doing so; that is where the entitlement ends.

[Poll #1410915]
(edit: removed Harlan Ellison quote, which doesn't really express what I'm getting at here)

Date: 2009-06-05 07:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zwol.livejournal.com
I hesitated to answer this poll for a while because of discomfort with something in its premises, which I've now figured out what it was. On balance I do want to discourage people from saying that...

but

I think that there is a right to be left alone by others, and I think it extends to a right to refuse to enter debate. If presented with a counterargument to something I believe, I may not have the energy and/or time to dispute it, or I may believe that arguing the point is socially inappropriate in context, or whatever. I'd generally express it in those terms ("I disagree with you but I don't want to discuss it right now").

Example: I was at a pastry shop one time wearing a fairly provocative shirt (http://store.xkcd.com/xkcd/#Science) and the cashier tried to lay an argument for young-earth creationism on me. I was too tired for it and the discussion would have pissed off everyone behind me in line. I said something along the lines of "I don't want to hold up the line arguing about it" which she accepted with good grace.

Date: 2009-06-05 07:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zwol.livejournal.com
Addendum: I would also allow a right to exit an argument on grounds of fatigue, without conceding the point. Again, the phrasing I'd choose is more like "I still disagree but I don't want to argue about it any more".

Date: 2009-06-07 09:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com
As I discuss above, I think some sort of wording along the lines of "let's agree to disagree" is a lot less problematic!

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