Ah, go on...

[ciphergoth]

You can make people like you more by doing them a tremendously damaging disservice - encourage them to do what is in their short-term interests but against their long-term interests.

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Just to clarify - this isn't a veiled attack on someone, just something I've been thinking about recently, so I'm not thinking of one big important instance of this but the zillions of little instances you see all the time.