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First off, come to the pub tonight!

Second, I watched Eyes Wide Shut on C5 last night. What was that all about then?

Lots of impressive but meaningless imagery, very very slow plot development, rather irritating incidental music and an inconclusive conclusion. I saw lots of sex-related imagery, but if there was a sexual morality fable in there, a warning against "empty, meaningless sex" or otherwise, then it passed me by. To me, it was a warning that if you gatecrash a party and someone warns you to get away before they kill you, do as they say. Also a warning against telling people you don't know very well about things you've been paid to keep secret; or against working for organisations that have people killed in the first place.

At one point, taxis refuse to pick him up because he's crossed the Bad Guys. What did they do, send a fax to every taxi driver in New York saying "don't pick this guy up, photo attached, signed the Bad Guys"? Or did they write "don't pick me up" on Tom Cruise's forehead while he slept, in a special ink that only taxi drivers can see?

I think EWS doesn't work for me because it depends on the audience imagining that sex parties are the most forbidden and secret thing there could ever be. I'd like to wave a little flag at this point and say that, in common with many of you reading this of course, I go to sex parties quite often, they're generally jolly good fun, and people hardly ever get murdered! After watching EWS, I wanted to write that on banners and hang them out the window.

Though it did make me wonder if an opening ceremony at a sex party might be a cool thing. Unfortunately that would require people turning up on time...

Date: 2002-10-18 05:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pavlos.livejournal.com
From what I understand based on accounts of people who have affairs, the idea is to have an uncomplicated part-time relationship that gives you sexual pleasure and makes you feel attractive and desired. As soon as one of the affair partners begins to love the other, a mess results.

As I say I never get this myself. What I want is to have affectionate or sexual relations with my friends, since we get on very well and they seem like the right people to do this.

Pavlos

Date: 2002-10-18 06:33 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] nickys.livejournal.com
> As soon as one of the affair partners begins to love the other, a mess results.

That certainly seems to be the case in all the affair situations I've seen.

> What I want is to have affectionate or sexual relations with my friends, since we get on very well and they seem like the right people to do this.

It seems to me that that could be a lot easier to manage.
Particularly if the friendship is a longstanding and stable one then feelings of both people are less likely to be drastically changed by adding sex to the relationship.

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