Some of us actually enjoy the rather clinical aspect of the checklist (perhaps that particular aspect is more of a top buzz?), but even where one likes things to be more "fluid" it can be very useful to have a list of definite "no way" activities.
I think the basic checklist should contain yes,no and maybe categories, and should be fairly extensive re listing activities (just seeing a long pervy list can be a thrill in my experience, and can turn the negotiation into a scene in itself) but leave plenty of space for write - ins. It is I suppose quite possible that presenting a novice with a huge checklist could send them screaming for the hills though.......anyone had that experience?
Personally I find checklists etc a huge turn-on, and I am considering getting one of my little geeks to set me up a directory for keeping detailed files on all my subs :)
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Date: 2002-08-28 02:53 am (UTC)I think the basic checklist should contain yes,no and maybe categories, and should be fairly extensive re listing activities (just seeing a long pervy list can be a thrill in my experience, and can turn the negotiation into a scene in itself) but leave plenty of space for write - ins. It is I suppose quite possible that presenting a novice with a huge checklist could send them screaming for the hills though.......anyone had that experience?
Personally I find checklists etc a huge turn-on, and I am considering getting one of my little geeks to set me up a directory for keeping detailed files on all my subs :)
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