Honestly, I do think that's part of it, though like you I'm not sure why. I think part of me would feel included by knowing he was willing to talk about it with me. Part of me would want to know because I'd feel better once I was sure that he really did have fun and that it was a good experience for him.
After I've been with other partners, usually I'm gushing to tell him the details, and he's not ready to hear them yet, he just wants cuddle time. Then gradually he asks the questions he's ready for answers to, until he ends up knowing pretty much the whole thing.
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timeasmymeasure
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Date: 2002-06-06 07:14 am (UTC)Honestly, I do think that's part of it, though like you I'm not sure why. I think part of me would feel included by knowing he was willing to talk about it with me. Part of me would want to know because I'd feel better once I was sure that he really did have fun and that it was a good experience for him.
After I've been with other partners, usually I'm gushing to tell him the details, and he's not ready to hear them yet, he just wants cuddle time. Then gradually he asks the questions he's ready for answers to, until he ends up knowing pretty much the whole thing.