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Paul Crowley ([personal profile] ciphergoth) wrote2002-02-22 04:48 pm

[livejournal.com profile] coracaskia in a collar

In relation to this article...

http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?itemid=24183289

(Updated: friends-only entry by [livejournal.com profile] coracaskia - if you can't read it but you'd like to be able to, comment here...)

I've been talking mysteriously about getting a "tamper-evident collar" made, but I didn't say anything about who it was for. I think most people must have assumed it was for me, but it's for [livejournal.com profile] coracaskia! I didn't know if she wanted me to announce that, but it turns out she's quite keen for me to do so.

That's not the collar she's wearing just now - she's wearing a dog collar bought from a pet shop. The tamper-resistant one has yet to be made; it looks like [livejournal.com profile] giolla might well be making it for me, though we've yet to sort out all the details. I'm looking forward very much to having such a thing! I'm looking forward, among other things, to sealing it around her neck before one of her visits to London, and seeing her again on the way back to remove it, knowing she's been wearing it the whole time.

I'm also looking forward to one of the conditions I'll imposed that go with the collar, which will affect you if you're playing with her: while she's wearing it, if she's going to allow someone else to penetrate her, I have to get a text message (or failing that, an email) telling me about it first. So if you've a date with her, make sure your phone is charged...

Grinning a very broad grin, Paul.
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[personal profile] diffrentcolours 2002-02-22 09:09 am (UTC)(link)
Fantastic :)
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[personal profile] babysimon 2002-02-22 09:17 am (UTC)(link)
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Bloody paranoid crypto freaks... mumble...

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-22 09:36 am (UTC)(link)
Fixed for you... just sorting out who else isn't on Laura's friends list who should be, using

http://forbidden.dough.net/~archon/cgi-bin/ljfrcomp.cgi

[identity profile] lizw.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
What a very cool utility. Thanks for posting the link.

[identity profile] conflux.livejournal.com 2002-02-22 10:42 am (UTC)(link)
I have to get a text message (or failing that, an email) telling me about it first.

Not that you in any way have a slut fetish or anything.

I'm looking forward, among other things, to sealing it around her neck before one of her visits to London, and seeing her again on the way back to remove it, knowing she's been wearing it the whole time.

I like the way you think :) Will the collar have rings on?

Mind you it might be a good idea to change the rules slightly if she is going for interviews.

On a practical note it would also be a good idea to make sure the leather isn't too absorbent and that it doesn't shrink in water. I speak from experience as I used to wear a woven black leather bracelet all the time when I was a student (the first time) but it got wet a few too many times and just had to go.

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
Not that you in any way have a slut fetish or anything

*grin* might as well get the most mileage out of it!

Will the collar have rings on?

Just a single D-ring for attaching a leash.

Mind you it might be a good idea to change the rules slightly if she is going for interviews.

Actually the discussion we had about this went something like "and if you're going to an interview, then you could get the seal checked and the collar removed shortly beforehand by someone we both trust eg [livejournal.com profile] conflux" (since she mentioned she might be staying with you before going for interviews). .. does that sound like a good plan to you?

On a practical note... I've mentioned to [livejournal.com profile] giolla that it needs to be shower-resistant, he thinks that's practical.

She's asleep wearing it just now ... makes me go awwwwwwww! Unfortunately I have to take it off today 'cos she's going back home...

[identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
Of course, it doesn't have to be leather. You can get rubber collars.

Er, so I'm told.

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 09:12 am (UTC)(link)
Rubber or plastic would be more practical, but for us, leather is more fun...

[identity profile] coracaskia.livejournal.com 2002-02-25 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
rubber could be good - I like rubber - can't help feeling it'd probably make my neck stink though after a few days! rubber doesn't smell v nice at the best of times ...

[identity profile] conflux.livejournal.com 2002-02-24 08:29 am (UTC)(link)
Just a single D-ring for attaching a leash.

A couple of extra D rings at the sides would mean it could be used more easily as part of bondage play but on the other hand a single ring would look more elegant.

Actually the discussion we had about this went something like "and if you're going to an interview, then you could get the seal checked and the collar removed shortly beforehand by someone we both trust eg conflux" (since she mentioned she might be staying with you before going for interviews). .. does that sound like a good plan to you?

That sounds like an excellent plan.

She's asleep wearing it just now ... makes me go awwwwwwww!

I totally understand.

Unfortunately I have to take it off today 'cos she's going back home...

Life can sometimes be very unfair.
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[personal profile] zz 2002-02-22 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
aww, sweet.. :)

*one* of the conditions?

[identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
My main thought was: I wonder how Alexander Graham Bell would react if he knew how people were using his invention these days?

He'd probably die (again) of shock.

Or maybe he was a typical repessed Victorian. Maybe he'd end up sending you a text message...

Also, given the powerful vibration feature in Nokia phones, perhaps you could work out some protocol involving sending a reply...

[identity profile] coracaskia.livejournal.com 2002-02-25 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
interesting ideas ....

[identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
So just out of academic interest, what would be a suitable wording for the text message? "hi u dont know me but im about to bang yr girlfriend"? Or is there an SMS code for this kind of thing? Miss Manners never covers this stuff.

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I'd anticipated getting the text from [livejournal.com profile] coracaskia ... maybe we should work out some sort of abbreviated code? "GFB jhg - yay!" or something :-) Whatever it is, it should be something short and easy to send...

[identity profile] alienspacebat.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 10:58 am (UTC)(link)
Does that mean it has to be sent right before if it has to be quick. Or are you wanting coded updates right through?

'Just a sec, got to text Paul again'

[identity profile] ex-meta.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, the lack of speed dial for SMS could be a problem.

Plus you need to allow for things like lack of signal in underground car parks.

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-24 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
One text will be fine :-)

[identity profile] thekumquat.livejournal.com 2002-02-23 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
would like to see Coracaskia's posts...

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-24 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
She got around to updating her friends list to include yourself and many others on Friday, so if you're getting access denied when you click the link in the article, try reloading...

[identity profile] coracaskia.livejournal.com 2002-02-25 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
The collar is now under my pillow, so it's near me when I sleep even when I can't wear it cos of chances of my family seeing in the morning ... I think about it a lot - can't wait for you to fasten it on me again ... I love my collar! ;)

[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-26 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
*beam*

it means so much to me... I can't wait either! But it means so much to me that you'll sometimes wear it for me even when I'm not there!

Green

[identity profile] missedephemera.livejournal.com 2002-02-26 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
with jealousy, mmm yum, all the wonderful possibilities, I wish I was in your shoes, ciphergoth!
Perhaps it will be seen in public in a club some day?

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[identity profile] ciphergoth.livejournal.com 2002-02-26 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
We will certainly see it at a club someday, the next club we both go to barring unforeseen circumstances.

In fact, it's the costume I have planned for her for next time there's a fetish club we can both go to. Well, that and shoes.