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ciphergoth) wrote2002-08-28 12:33 am
ciphergoth) wrote2002-08-28 12:33 am
BDSM checklists?
I've made some modifications to the standard Tammad Rimilia BDSM checklist and made my version available here:
http://www.ciphergoth.org/writing/bdsm-checklist.txt
Checklists like this can be a useful tool in negotiation, and spur you on to doing new and interesting things. A list a little like this was certainly a good thing when I started playing with![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
ergotia and lilithmagna, and it was particularly fun when we happened across the list a couple of years later and found we'd done most of the things I was attracted to :-)
What do you think of lists like this? What do you think of this variant? Is it comprehensible, would it be useful, can it be improved? As a bottom or a top, how would you raise the idea of using such a list? And does anyone know what "Strapping" is?
http://www.ciphergoth.org/writing/bdsm-checklist.txt
Checklists like this can be a useful tool in negotiation, and spur you on to doing new and interesting things. A list a little like this was certainly a good thing when I started playing with
ergotia and lilithmagna, and it was particularly fun when we happened across the list a couple of years later and found we'd done most of the things I was attracted to :-)What do you think of lists like this? What do you think of this variant? Is it comprehensible, would it be useful, can it be improved? As a bottom or a top, how would you raise the idea of using such a list? And does anyone know what "Strapping" is?